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title: "When_easy_going_isnt_easy"
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title: "When Easy Going Isnt Easy"
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date: 2023-09-08T10:02:55-06:00
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tags: ['personality', 'mental health', 'advice']
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summary: 'My people-pleasing brain demands smooth sailing waters, often at the cost of the *******'
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summary: 'My people-pleasing brain demands smooth sailing waters, often at the cost of the emotionally sensitive.'
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# Easy Doesn't Equal Right
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@ -53,5 +46,13 @@ saying "No Worries" can invalidate the very real feelings and reactions of the e
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people in the group. For example, I could say something meant in jest, a light jab of some flaw we
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all recognize. In an emotionally high personality however, this can seem like an attack. Everyone
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laughs, but for the teased person, their internal defense systems are blairing to elevate to DEFCON 1
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and fire up the shield generators.
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and fire up the shield generators. On seeing that I have made a mistake, I quickly reverse gears and
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attempt to extinguish the fire. I reassure the emotionally high
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person that there isnt any problem to worry about, it was just a tease. This, can inadvertendly tell this wonderful human
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being that the feelings they are having are unecessary and wrong. I coined this
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interaction Akuna Matada Gas Lighting, it means no worries, the feelings you have aren't real (goes with the tune even).
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I intend this post mostly for myself, in self reflection and puting my thoughts to words I feel like
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the things I learn become more concrete. But, if it helps anyone like myself take a deeper introspective
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look, then thats hopefully good too!
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