# Persuasion Principles for Skill Design ## Overview AI models respond to the same persuasion principles as humans. Understanding this psychology helps you design more effective skills - not to manipulate, but to ensure critical practices are followed even under pressure. **Research foundation:** Meincke et al. (2025) tested 7 persuasion principles with N=28,000 AI conversations. Persuasion techniques more than doubled compliance rates (33% → 72%, p < .001). ## The Seven Principles ### 1. Authority **What it is:** Deference to expertise, credentials, or official sources. **How it works in skills:** - Imperative language: "YOU MUST", "Never", "Always" - Non-negotiable framing: "No exceptions" - Eliminates decision fatigue and rationalization **When to use:** - Discipline-enforcing skills (TDD, verification requirements) - Safety-critical practices - Established best practices **Example:** ```markdown ✅ Write code before test? Delete it. Start over. No exceptions. ❌ Consider writing tests first when feasible. ``` ### 2. Commitment **What it is:** Consistency with prior actions, statements, or public declarations. **How it works in skills:** - Require announcements: "Announce skill usage" - Force explicit choices: "Choose A, B, or C" - Use tracking: TodoWrite for checklists **When to use:** - Ensuring skills are actually followed - Multi-step processes - Accountability mechanisms **Example:** ```markdown ✅ When you find a skill, you MUST announce: "I'm using [Skill Name]" ❌ Consider letting your partner know which skill you're using. ``` ### 3. Scarcity **What it is:** Urgency from time limits or limited availability. **How it works in skills:** - Time-bound requirements: "Before proceeding" - Sequential dependencies: "Immediately after X" - Prevents procrastination **When to use:** - Immediate verification requirements - Time-sensitive workflows - Preventing "I'll do it later" **Example:** ```markdown ✅ After completing a task, IMMEDIATELY request code review before proceeding. ❌ You can review code when convenient. ``` ### 4. Social Proof **What it is:** Conformity to what others do or what's considered normal. **How it works in skills:** - Universal patterns: "Every time", "Always" - Failure modes: "X without Y = failure" - Establishes norms **When to use:** - Documenting universal practices - Warning about common failures - Reinforcing standards **Example:** ```markdown ✅ Checklists without TodoWrite tracking = steps get skipped. Every time. ❌ Some people find TodoWrite helpful for checklists. ``` ### 5. Unity **What it is:** Shared identity, "we-ness", in-group belonging. **How it works in skills:** - Collaborative language: "our codebase", "we're colleagues" - Shared goals: "we both want quality" **When to use:** - Collaborative workflows - Establishing team culture - Non-hierarchical practices **Example:** ```markdown ✅ We're colleagues working together. I need your honest technical judgment. ❌ You should probably tell me if I'm wrong. ``` ### 6. Reciprocity **What it is:** Obligation to return benefits received. **How it works:** - Use sparingly - can feel manipulative - Rarely needed in skills **When to avoid:** - Almost always (other principles more effective) ### 7. Liking **What it is:** Preference for cooperating with those we like. **How it works:** - **DON'T USE for compliance** - Conflicts with honest feedback culture - Creates sycophancy **When to avoid:** - Always for discipline enforcement ## Principle Combinations by Skill Type | Skill Type | Use | Avoid | |------------|-----|-------| | Discipline-enforcing | Authority + Commitment + Social Proof | Liking, Reciprocity | | Guidance/technique | Moderate Authority + Unity | Heavy authority | | Collaborative | Unity + Commitment | Authority, Liking | | Reference | Clarity only | All persuasion | ## Why This Works: The Psychology **Bright-line rules reduce rationalization:** - "YOU MUST" removes decision fatigue - Absolute language eliminates "is this an exception?" questions - Explicit anti-rationalization counters close specific loopholes **Implementation intentions create automatic behavior:** - Clear triggers + required actions = automatic execution - "When X, do Y" more effective than "generally do Y" - Reduces cognitive load on compliance **AI models are parahuman:** - Trained on human text containing these patterns - Authority language precedes compliance in training data - Commitment sequences (statement → action) frequently modeled - Social proof patterns (everyone does X) establish norms ## Ethical Use **Legitimate:** - Ensuring critical practices are followed - Creating effective documentation - Preventing predictable failures **Illegitimate:** - Manipulating for personal gain - Creating false urgency - Guilt-based compliance **The test:** Would this technique serve the user's genuine interests if they fully understood it? ## Research Citations **Cialdini, R. B. (2021).** *Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion (New and Expanded).* Harper Business. - Seven principles of persuasion - Empirical foundation for influence research **Meincke, L., Shapiro, D., Duckworth, A. L., Mollick, E., Mollick, L., & Cialdini, R. (2025).** Call Me A Jerk: Persuading AI to Comply with Objectionable Requests. University of Pennsylvania. - Tested 7 principles with N=28,000 AI conversations - Compliance increased 33% → 72% with persuasion techniques - Authority, commitment, scarcity most effective - Validates parahuman model of AI behavior ## Quick Reference When designing a skill, ask: 1. **What type is it?** (Discipline vs. guidance vs. reference) 2. **What behavior am I trying to change?** 3. **Which principle(s) apply?** (Usually authority + commitment for discipline) 4. **Am I combining too many?** (Don't use all seven) 5. **Is this ethical?** (Serves user's genuine interests?)