diff --git a/.aspell.en.pws b/.aspell.en.pws index ddd0b30..180827b 100644 --- a/.aspell.en.pws +++ b/.aspell.en.pws @@ -67,3 +67,4 @@ tik tok toks UI +Nephi diff --git a/content/posts/why-i-let-go-of-the-rod.md b/content/posts/why-i-let-go-of-the-rod.md new file mode 100644 index 0000000..8ec9af3 --- /dev/null +++ b/content/posts/why-i-let-go-of-the-rod.md @@ -0,0 +1,44 @@ +--- +date: 2025-11-08 +description: "A brief retelling of my experience leaving the Mormon faith." +image: "" +lastmod: 2025-11-08 +showTableOfContents: false +tags: ["religion", "life"] +title: "Why I Let Go of the Rod" +type: "post" +--- + +## First Nephi + +I recognize it's important to establish some things before heading out any further because the audience I could be +reaching is extremely broad. So, before I get in to tell my tall tale, lets clear the air so I don't run the risk of +losing anyone along the way. + +- As of the time of writing, it is commonly held preference not say Mormons, and instead say members of the Church of +Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. + +- I'm not writing this to persuade anyone. This is my story. If you feel attacked or validated by my experience, I am +going to put that onus on you, the reader, to draw what conclusions you deem appropriate. +- My motivation to write this is to have something thought out and prepared when people ask why I left. This request +typically comes from friends and family still a part of the faith, which I always appreciate. Your brain is left +whirling a bit when you leave the Church, so hopefully this can clarify things for both of us. +- If you the reader don't know much about the (more commonly recognized) "Mormon" faith, then this post may be hard +to follow. It will waste no time explaining concepts and assume the reader is familiar with the doctrines, history, +and positions of the church. I will do my best to delineate between commonly held **facts** and my _opinions_ cite my +sources. +- If you the reader take issue with how I've portrayed things, please reach out! I mean it. There's no real way to +express this through rendered HTML on your lit array of pixels, but its true. I feel strongly it is important to always +keep these conversations open. + +_Hopefully_ I haven't lost you, dear reader, and I want to thank you in advance for any of the effort you take to +understand and empathize with me. You keep my faith in humanity <3 + +So, without further ado, lets "begin at the very beginning" + +## "Born of goodly parents" + +I grew up in a loving home with parents that did their best to give us five kids a great life. I'm the middle kid, the +glue you might say *smirk. My involvement in the church informed much of my life. My friends were typically the boys in +my ward's Sunday school class or in my boy scout troop. My views of the world were most entirely shaped by my religion. +I remember feeling immense privilege and dread thinking that I happened to live in the neighborhood of the family that